When we mend a relationship based on compromise, in reality we are rebuilding it on a weak foundation that is prone to damage because compromise rests on negativity being suppressed within.
We surrender to accept things while allowing the traces of a grudge to remain.
A healthy marriage rests on making adjustments. This minor change of concept can bring about a major change in one’s life.
In making adjustments in a relationship one is willingly and consciously seeking to find ways to positively agree to be more accommodating.
One intentionally wants to improve oneself for the better so does not blame the other person for the change in them. Instead they feel more in control of themselves and the situation while being more appreciative of their blessings.
This overall change of their state of mind gives birth to a forgiving attitude and a better relationship, bi izn Allah.